There is a widespread belief among the people that a man is not worthy to cry. Men who shed tears because of grief are believed to be weak and unmanly men.
Netter friends...
It seems that such assumptions must be eradicated from us. Just let other people say what, because in reality by crying we can be released from the crush of a very big problem that is falling us. Even though it's only temporary because there are many problems that won't be solved just by crying.
As ordinary people, of course, men have the same feelings as women, it's just that maybe the way men respond to problems is very different from women.
If a woman responds to a problem by prioritizing feelings, but if a man responds to a problem with logic and common sense (that's a reality that I experience as a woman)
. Netter friends...
Here are several reasons why men really need to cry
1. Have the same feelings
OK men and women both have feelings of sadness, happiness, anger and others, a rpia's heart is also not made of stone, but just a lump of blood or a piece of soft flesh, so don't assume that men are never sad
2. It's very important for humans to cry
By crying directly can shed all the complaints and resentment.
On the other hand, crying can bring out various kinds of dirt hidden behind the eyelids.
3. Prevent acts of violence.
Although not everything, the tenderness of a woman's heart will not be defeated by men. As gentle as a man's feelings, I'm sure they are stronger than women's. If a woman takes out her anger mostly through crying, if a man takes it out through tantrums. Temperance will not get a solution, but if you cry sometimes it can inspire inspiration. 4. Become a happy human being As expressed by a great scholar, Sheikh Abdul Qodir Al Jailani, as follows. Some of the signs of a wretched human being are: it is difficult to shed tears, too ascetic in the world, a little bit of shame.
Some of the signs of a happy human being are: easy to cry because they remember sins, do not think that the life of the world is everything, great shame.
5. Nature as a human being
God created in this world in pairs, there are sad, there is happy, there is crying, there is laughing.
If someone says that a man shouldn't cry, it means he has violated nature as a human being hehehehe….
Net friends….
Maybe there are many people who conclude that a man crying is a sign that he is not a real man, but actually he is the one who is never grateful, because he does not take advantage of the facilities provided by God.
Cry if you have to cry, the important thing is don't cry because of something that doesn't deserve to be cried about.
OK, friend, that's all I can present at this opportunity, I hope this is useful and adds to my knowledge.
Thank you for visiting and see you on the next info.
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