In associating with others, of course we are limited by the norms that must be carried out. Even though sometimes we are not aware of the violation of these norms, there will be other parties who feel that they are getting the consequences of our actions.
Associating consists of several very clear levels. On this occasion I will not discuss totally from that level but will discuss tips for successful socializing, which sometimes we feel is wrong to get along which causes us to go the wrong way due to undirected associations, and eventually become out of control
1. Get along at a higher level simple
That is when we are socializing with a simple environment, or in a small scope such as family for example. We can't just do something arbitrarily and forbid other people to do something, that's solely so that family members can respect and understand each other, which in the end can help each other.
2. Hang out in a moderate scope
In this case I describe within the scope of school or playmates. If we are at school, of course our association is wider than within the scope of the family. Here we can find various kinds of character differences from each individual. So at this level we are required to be able to balance the environment around us so that we feel comfortable and other people can appreciate our existence.
3. Be a super human
This means that we can be accepted in all places and can enter various circles. If we happen to be people who are not too smart, then choose friends who have a level of intelligence that is more prominent than us. If we are smart people then make ourselves useful for others in need. Don't let us become arrogant people and like to mock stupid people.
4. Try to avoid going in threes
. When we are going on a trip, whether near or far, it is best to avoid going with two friends or three with ourselves.
If we do this, there will be one person who feels left out. For example, if we are chatting with one of our friends, then another person will feel uncomfortable and feel sorry for going with us.
Even if we cannot avoid it, don't let us talk in whispers with only one friend, do everything together. If we speak slowly and even whisper to one friend, then the other will feel left out. They may even think negatively about our conversation because they might think that we are talking about them.
5. Associating in a broad scope
In this case we associate in society which of course consists of various kinds of character, economic background, status, and occupation.
Try to get to know each other when we have neighbors. Unless our house is far from other people's settlements (in the forest for example).
Even though we have a big family, the role of a neighbor is very necessary. Follow the various rules that are applied in the environment where we live, and be able to maintain an attitude so that we can be well received.
If we think that success can be achieved with our own hands, then it is the beginning of destruction. Because we as social beings certainly need the help of other people around us.
Net friends…
Whatever we do, we must be able to control ourselves, by respecting others, in essence, we are respecting ourselves.
If we want to be respected by others, then we must be able to respect others first.
Okay friends, apparently that's all I can present at this opportunity, I hope it's useful and good luck.
Thank you for visiting and see you on the next tips.
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