Marriage is something sacred and cannot be played around with. Therefore we must be able to prepare everything so that it can be carried out properly according to what is expected.
What's more, the preparation intended is not only for the implementation of the wedding, but the most important thing is the preparation for the post-wedding day. Because I believe that everyone who is getting married wants their marriage to run smoothly and last until the end of their lives.
If it's just to prepare everything for the implementation of the marriage, I think it's easy and it's not done alone. Because it definitely involves the families and relatives of the two prospective brides and grooms. But if we prepare ourselves after the wedding process, that's what we have to prepare and calculate carefully.
Why must all this be carefully prepared?
Because we are going from being single to being married. Initially, we were free to do something without any restrictions, but after marriage, of course, our freedom is limited by circumstances, as well as our obligations as husband or wife.
Some of the preparations that we must prepare before the wedding are:
1. Spiritual preparation
In this case we should get married not only aiming to find a life partner. Both in joy and sorrow, in health and sickness and others. As religious people, it is better if our intention to get married is as a series of worship. Which has been expressed by Rosulluoh SAW that "Marriage is my sunnah, whoever does not like my sunnah then he is not from my ummah" if we prioritize our intentions well, God willing, we will get good results too.
2. Personal preparation
I have briefly reviewed above, that marriage is a transitional gate from single to family. In this case we must be able to prepare our personalities so that our marriage can be lasting and full of blessings.
If before marriage we were a person with a rough and chaotic personality, then prepare ourselves to be gentle and disciplined persons, this is so that our life partner does not become offended and feel cheated by us.
Usually during dating all our bad things will be covered up, and only show the good side that is in us
3. Physical preparation
We must prepare our physical and body stamina so that everything we have planned can run smoothly. In this case, it is not only for the purpose of physical preparation on the first night, but for broad physical preparation. Because after marrying we are required to be able to carry out our obligations as husband or wife. We have to fulfill what is called an obligation if we don't want to get into trouble in the future.
4. Material preparation
Why should the material be prepared?
Of course you have to, because to be able to live a good life you don't need material things.
In this case it does not mean that we must be materialistic, but must be realistic. For a couple of people who are in love, it seems as if they can live only with love. But in reality life must be balanced with material things. Rice must be bought with money, if we happen to have offspring of course everything costs money. Everything we have to plan even though God wills.
5. Social preparation
In household life, of course we will turn to the community environment, which of course has its own rules of the game. We cannot arbitrarily determine our way of life without being balanced by socializing with others. As social beings, of course we need the help of others. So we have to start preparing ourselves so that we can be well received in society.
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That's a bit about the mandatory preparations before the wedding, if we have prepared everything carefully, we just have to push it by praying that everything we have planned will get permission and blessings from God Almighty.
Okay friends, apparently that's all I can present at this opportunity, I hope it's useful and I hope it can be an inspiration for you future brides.
Thank you for visiting and see you on the next tip.
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