Sometimes it feels bad too when we have friends or co-workers who are still single. If you look at it from a physical perspective, what is he lacking?
Yes handsome, yes macho, successful career, but still got the title JONES (single ngenes)
Netter friends...
if we experience something like this, then maybe that's the time for us to act as matchmakers.
To become a successful matchmaker, of course, you can't just do it. In this case, you are required to be able to master certain tricks.
If only we don't care about the tricks and the limitations and the rules of the game, then our best friend will not get happiness, but it will only add to the downfall of Him (the friend we will fight for his fate).
If you intend to become a successful matchmaker, you should pay attention to a few things the following:
1. Prepare determination
Why do we have to prepare a strong determination?
This is just a precaution, because there are not a few matchmakers who become competitors in the ending.
At first we intended to help find a partner for our best friend, but after a while, the matchmaker herself took advantage of the situation and situation for her own interests.
Why did such a handsome guy give it to my friend, it's better for me.
2. Determine your intentions.
We help bring him together with his prospective partner, is it just to help, or is it for business purposes?
If our goal is to help, then stay away from the term matchmaker service rates.
3. Understand character
Before acting, of course, we must be able to understand the character of our friends and also the target character, if our friend is a nerd, avoid looking for targets whose hobbies are clubbing or racing. Because hobby compatibility can also be one of the lasting assets of a relationship.
give understanding that we only want to help and have no other intentions.
We have to do this so that there are no problems if in the middle of the road there is a discrepancy between the single and the target of the operation.
If we do not provide understanding in advance, the single person may even blame us.
4. Don't cover up the situation.
Give a realistic and accurate picture or it could be with a little polish but don't overdo it.
This includes habits, hobbies, character, work, family circumstances and others.
don't let us say that the single person is a genius to the target, when in reality he is not very smart, or other things. 5. Make a Kopdar plan
If we have got the target and made an approach, make a schedule of meetings which of course we are involved in.
We can do this by organizing a joint meal between us, the singles, and also the target.
If we want to add excitement to the beginning of the meeting, we can invite one or two other friends to join us.
But the friend we invite must be the one we have set to be able to provide support for the single and also the target, who automatically already knows about the matchmaking plan.
6. No coercion
Let the single and the target determine their own compatibility, don't let us force them to date or determine their dating plans.
to be able to increase familiarity, do things like this repeatedly and with a different atmosphere.
If the first time we meet them in a restaurant, then arrange a second meeting on a beach that is quite beautiful and quiet or another place that has a bit of a romantic element. 7. Help him prepare for his first date. If the first upset is so tempting, then it's up to you. We should not apply this expression first, because maybe for singles it is the toughest and most confusing challenge. Help him decide on a place, clothes or other small things. Okay, pal... it seems that's all I can present at this opportunity, I hope it's useful and good luck.
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